This is why porn is bad

75% of parents believed that their children should never encounter porn, but 53% of those children have already seen porn. Amazingly, plenty of people believe that porn is wrong and that is why they want to quit consuming it.

By continuing to read this, you will be highly motivated to quit your pornography addiction and learn why pornography is bad.

Porn makes you violent

"I've met a lot of men who were motivated to commit violence just like me.  And without exception, every one of them was deeply involved in pornography without question, without exception deeply influenced and consumed by an addiction to pornography.  There's no question about it.  The FBI's own study on serial homicide shows that the most common interest among serial killers is pornography".

-Bundy, Ted. American Serial Killer 

When even a serial killer can see the devastating effects of pornography use, you know it’s bad. Watching porn creates this hostile masculinity that men are subconsciously adopting the behaviors of.

They start to develop a narcissistic sexual desire to control a woman and dominate her. And they believe the way to do so is through physical sexual force. This is really just a cover up for their insecurities with their masculinity that porn developed.

Porn use may develop an impersonal sexuality for these men. Impersonal sexuality is when these porn-addicted men only view women as sexual objects that they need to conquer. Rather than any emotional attachment.

Side view of young black angered man with Afro braids in white t shirt pushing sad wife with closed eyes against tiled wall during conflict in bathroom
Porn can make you violent

Porn develops weird fetishes

Remember the first time you watched porn? It felt like fireworks going off in your brain. And nowadays you find yourself clicking videos of heavier content, trying to get the same feeling you did the first time.

A year later with your porn use, you find yourself watching stuff you weren’t into the first time. You start seeking out content that would be questionable of your character if anyone found out you were watching this category.

Well this is because porn causes weird fetishes.

Take for example the cuckhold fetish. Most married men’s nightmare would be to find that their wife is having sex with another man. Because it destroys that marriage agreement that they were only for each other.

When you’re watching heterosexual porn, you are literally watching a man having sex with a woman. Then what happens is you develop a desire for cuckhold porn. This is how the psychological conditioning starts influencing your brain. You probably would never want to do these sexual fetish act with your wife in real life. But yet you find yourself watching these type of videos.

It will come to the point where having regular sex with a woman won’t be as arousing. They will get to a point in their porn addiction where they get more aroused from the fantasy of them having sex with another man.

You will be surprised of the high amount of views the cuckhold categories have. And these porn producers know well of this. That is why they are capitalizing off of this by creating more of these cuckhold videos.

It rewires your brain to watch cuckholding, another reason why it is not normal to watch porn.

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This man wasn’t into cuckholding until porn made him into a cuck

Porn makes you a simp

Amazingly I have seen men donate thousands of dollars to twitch streamer girls just for saying their name. This behavior implicitly puts these streamer girls on a pedestal and placing the man who donated to her, on a lower level subconsciously.

Simp is an Internet slang term describing someone who shows excessive sympathy and attention toward another person, typically someone who does not reciprocate the same feelings, in order to win their affection 
                                                                                                                                        -Wikipedia 

When men constantly watch porn, they are rewiring their brain. They don’t know how to talk to girls in real life. They only know how to type out their perverted comments on the girl’s live chat and worship her.

The proof in why porn is turning men into simps is from one example from a company called Onlyfans. They managed to create a platform where women can upload sexually explicit photos and pornographic videos of themselves so that men can easily access them simply with a subscription fee. This is like paying for a woman instead of courting her. Sounds pretty simpy to me.

These men who are being conditioned into simps, are losing their manhood. They don’t know how to treat women or how to flirt with them in real life. Porn is bad because they are making men into simps.

Porn confuses your sexuality

When kids enter into their teenage years, their hormones are all over the place. They are going through a rapid change and have a lot of questions. Unfortunately this is the age where kids start getting into porn. They start developing an addiction and don’t understand that porn is bad.

If parents aren’t talking to their kids about sex, then these kids are learning it through internet porn. These videos are all catered towards fantasies and these false depictions never happen in real life. They are filmed a certain way to give the viewers a nice experience, not as how regular people have sex.

So when these people have sex for the first time, they try out all of these positions and acts they see on their porn videos. And these videos include violence, misogyny, and rarely for passion or love. You will see that the popular videos on these porn sites have taboo titles and content. Rarely the passionate content is more popular.

Incest is still one of the popular categories on porn websites. These porn studios are pumping these category like crazy because they know how hooked they can get people on this category. And they don’t care if it confuses your sexuality. Another reason why porn can hurt you.

Google trend search shows step family porn is on the rise today

Porn kills your purpose

A lot of men addicted to porn usually feel lost. They have invested so many hours in consuming porn that they haven’t invested any time to their purpose in life.

It’s true that excessive porn use can actually cause you to not appreciate life enough. You’ll even lose interest in some of the hobbies you usually enjoy. Because for these porn users, nothing in their life is more interesting than porn.

It destroys your motivation because of the dopamine reliance. You will lose your will power because of the laziness you are conditioning yourself through watching porn.

Reasons why porn is awful and causes you loss of purpose
• Lose appreciation for life due to porn being the only interesting in your life
• Numbs your motivation reward center
• Lack of commitment to purpose due to porn getting in the way

Porn makes you less interested in real-life sex

When you bombard yourself with porn, you are overloading your brain with large amounts of dopamine constantly. It gets to the point where regular sex doesn’t interest you.

Many of the sexual tastes and fetishes we develop can only be satisfied by watching porn. Porn addicts would rather watch porn videos than have sex with their partner, which is why porn is bad. They are unable to reach the same experience of pleasure with their partner.

And in some cases, these men are unable to get an erection from their partner, because real and normal sex don’t feel the same than the heavier content they are used to seeing on their porn videos. Many women have reported that the sex with their porn-addicted partner isn’t as good as it was before their partner’s porn addiction.

It’s ironic how porn actually destroys the need to have real sex. It’s because when you satisfy your sexual needs through watching pornography. You won’t have the motivation to put in the actual work to get a real life woman to perform real sex with. Just another reason why porn damages your manhood.

Porn makes you lazy

Porn is a shortcut. It eliminates the need to put in the time and effort to get a real woman. Because why not? For these porn addicts, the woman is only one click away. No need to date, no need to find ways to impress her, and no need to make yourself physically appealing for her. Because all they have to do is use a search bar on a porn website.

A Man Looking at His Hands Using a Vr Goggles
He’s ashamed of what he just fapped to.

You are also teaching your brain to look for shortcuts like these in life:

"I don't need to exercise when I can just take this magic weight loss pill"
"I'll just spend all my money on the lottery instead of studying to become successful"
"Why put in the work for a real woman when I can just fap to porn" 

Porn gives you a bad mindset

Porn is an escape

People think porn is a harmless way to de-stress, but when they are facing an uncomfortable situation at hand, they masturbate. The problem is that they are teaching themselves to avoid their current problems. It’s similar to video game addiction because we feel good and de-stress for the moment. But we never actually solve any of our main problems.

Escapism is mental diversion from unpleasant or boring aspects of daily life, typically through activities involving imagination or entertainment. Escapism may be used to occupy one's self away from persistent feelings of depression or general sadness.
                                                                                                                              -Wikipedia

Porn addicition is all about escapism. When using porn as an escape you are actually doing this:

• Delaying your pursuit of an actual love life
• Hurting your success
• Killing your soul

Porn is also telling you to avoid discomfort. When in reality, discomfort is how you grow and get better. When you take out porn out of the equation, you are left with all your problems. Problems like studying, improving yourself, and low self control. You will be forced to work on yourself when you stop using porn as an escape.

It won’t feel good at first, but the beauty of it is that you will get a real life girlfriend. You will become successful. You will have full control of your life. People who use porn as an escape have little control over their lives. Porn is your enemy, pain is your friend.

Silhouette of Person Sitting Beside Body of Water
Using porn is only a temporary escape

How to rewire your brain sexually

Porn is terrible and will ruin your life. But good news is that there is a cure for it. It is called no PMO.

PMO = Porn Masturbation Orgasm

When you stop watching porn, you are actually undoing the hurtful effects that porn is causing you. When you stop masturbating you naturally will want to redirect all your energy into somewhere productive. When you don’t have an orgasm for a long time, you will want to seek substitution from the sensation you used to get from climaxing.

How long will it take to cure your porn addiction? Depending on how long you have been consuming porn, will vary person to person. But most men who have been addicted for up to 10 years, have noticed they were back to normal when they hit day 90 of their no PMO streak. Assuming you did it the no fap hard mode way, with no relapses.

Related: How to do no fap hard mode

Porn may be the worst thing that happened to mankind. Porn certainly has a strong correlation with violent criminals which signifies how influential these porn videos can be. Not only that, but you may even develop an appetite for weird fetish videos that you would never do in real life! It even distorts your perception of women and view of your own self by making you a simp.

It can be confusing for many people’s sexuality when porn is their main source of sex education. And porn addicts all seem to have lack of a clear purpose in life. Part of it is because porn makes you lazy and lose interest in real life sex. And they will abuse porn as a form of escapism instead of improving their overall life.

Curing your porn addiction highly matters because this is your life we are talking about here. Your life is not for porn producing companies to control. When you don’t cure your porn addiction, you will hate your life. Will you be joining the millions of men on this no fap journey?

Related: The secret why millions of men are practicing no fap


2 thoughts on “This is why porn is bad”

  1. Many think that p*rn is a mode of s#x education. That’s actually not…This post helped me to kill my urge now.

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